Ugh. Talked to mom this morning. Good night, no problems this morning. Said she is really thinking dad is getting better and turning around. He has been so nice, not mean, and talking more. Told her this disease does not get better, there is no turn around. Could it be she is not as tense and quick to react, since she knows things are changing? Well, maybe, but she doesn't think so. Said maybe we should wait a few weeks. Told her we can still get his name on the list, and if we are not ready when they call, we still stay on the list. She wants so badly to not have to put him anywhere, and it tugs at my heartstrings. We have a meeting with the insurance guy tomorrow at 11:00, then the assisted living place at 1:30. I agreed to call her later this afternoon.
***2:30 MST**
Talked to mom. She had just gotten back from lunch, and was in a great mood. Dean came down and hung out with dad, and said dad talked a lot. Mom said, again, we should hold off. Told her that we need to get on the waiting list. The money is fully refundable, but at least we are on the list. She had forgotten that we could do this. Has had a lot on her mind.
We will get stuff done tomorrow, and then see where the next step leads us.
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